Great Idea!

[Cal Hays]

We do not talk or see each other often enough and this is a good way to share stuff. Thanks for including me in your thoughts. I read most of what you send but do not always respond. Keep sending and not worry about me getting too much info.

Great to see Sara's picture. You have been such a great husband and provider of care for her. I know it has to be the hardest job in the world and without God's strength,nobody could handle the burden.

I will try to put some pictures,etc on the site when I get a chance.

In Christ,
Cal

[Cal Hays]

That is wonderful news and makes me feel better about both of you. I did not know how you were handling all the stress so well but it always seems easier from a distance. Your faith is providing comfort to many around you without you knowing and feeling it. You have a great attitude about life and death! I guess people who experience tragedy so early can help others if God is in their heart. God Bless. Cal

[charlie / sarah hays]

NOW WITH SARAH IN N-H ITS NOT NEAR AS HARD---IM SO GLAD I HAVE HER IT DOSENT SEEM LIKE A BURDEN--SHE IS STILL A BLESSING TO ME AND I JUST PRAY FOR HER CONTINUED HEALTH AND PEACE---THEY SAY WHEN YOU "HAVE YOUR HEALTH" YOU HAVE EVERYTHING BUT IM HERE TO TELL YOU WHEN SHE GOT HER "PEACE" BACK AND THE AGGRESSION / PARANOIA SUBSIDED THEN WE BEGAN TO LIVE AGAIN--HER PHYSICAL HEALTH ALSO REMAINS VERY GOOD >>THANKS BE TO GOD !!
THE LAST COUPLE YEARS AT HOME WERE PRETTY MUCH A NIGHTMARE--SO THIS IS A REAL BLESSING--WITH ALZ YOU NEVER KNOW HOW A MEDICATION WILL AFFECT THEM SO WE JUST KEPT TRYING DIFFERENT DRUGS AND DOSAGES ---NOW ITS WORKING TO CONTROL HER BEHAVIOR AND DEMEANOR TO THOSE AROUND HER --SHE IS PEACEFUL AND USUALLY HAPPY-
NO MORE KARATE KICKS FOR THE AIDES SHOWERING HER--AND SHE IS USUALLY SLEEPING PEACEFULLY WHEN I PUT HER TO BED AND STAY UNTIL SHES SLEEPING GOOD